AZ & CA: Día de los Muertos (Tucson, AZ) & French Visa Interview (Los Angeles, CA)

Date: 09-12NOV2025

Día de los Muertos (Tucson, AZ): This is our 3rd time attending the Día de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) in Tucson, AZ. This is one of the largest processionals in the US with 150,000 people attending as either observers or participants. This event is a joyful celebration of life, not of death, and provides an opportunity to remember loved ones who have died. We attended this year with our friend, Michael, and we all wore costumes and painted our faces with sugar skulls. We had ribbons affixed to our backs with each ribbon being an individual in our life who we have lost. This year we added ribbons for all 3 of our fathers. We also wrote notes to specific loved ones which get placed in a large urn and burned with the smoke carrying our messages to our loved ones. There were lots of tears and storytelling as we were writing out the ribbons and writing our individual letters. We walked in the processional for about a mile until arriving at the location where the urn is lit on fire. The evening ends with music and an artistic performance similar to a Cirque de Soleil. It was a wonderful evening remembering our loved ones and sharing in the collective energies of all of those who attended.

French Visa Interview (Los Angeles, CA): We also visited Los Angeles for a short and sweet visit with the sole purpose to attend an interview for our Long-Term Visitors Visa for France. We decided to make a mini holiday out of this trip so we spent 2 days in downtown LA touring the Walt Disney Concert Hall (designed by Frank Gehry), visiting The Museum of Contemporary Art (MOCA), picnicking in Gloria Molina Grand Park and walking through the stunning Los Angeles Central Library. We were pleasantly surprised how much we liked downtown LA and found it to be walkable, fairly clean and generally safe for such a large city. We stayed at a cool hotel (Wayfarer Hotel), ate at a tasty vegan restaurant (The Vegan Joint) and even took our 1st Waymo (fully autonomous with no taxi driver). Our visa appointment was uneventful and now we wait to hear from the French Consulate in Washington DC to review (and hopefully approve) our completed application and 1″ thick stack of supporting documents. We definitely over prepared and needlessly stressed about this appointment as it was completely transactional in nature. Our flights were all on time or even early and there were no lines at any of the TSA checkpoints. The only negative for this trip was that LAX airport itself was sort of a shithole and very disjointed in its layout, but overall, it was a great mini holiday.

Next Up: We are spending a few days doing more local backyard exploration with a visit to Prescott and Jerome, AZ.


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7 comments

  1. Dear Tracey,

    What great photos! I wondered if you would be going to this again. We\’ll have to see it once we live closer. That is so sweet of you to include a ribbon for Zoe. She certainly was a sweet kitty.

    Take care,
    Sheri

  2. I was intrigued by your trip to LA. Of course, I was glad to read that your interview went so smoothly and have all appendages and digits crossed for a positive outcome. But I was equally taken with your descriptions of downtown LA. In all my trips down there, I believe I have only been in the downtown area Once, when Stephen was about 16 and we were catching a commuter train to visit Chapman university in Orange County, with Laura. 🙂 I have, therefore, forwarded your email to him to give him some ideas for some places we can visit the next time. I am there. To his credit, he always takes me to various beaches and canyons and ravines and what not to hike and be out in nature, and so I have a positive image of Los Angeles overall, which sometimes flabbergast people. He also has taken one of those autonomous taxis, but did not have a totally smooth trip. Apparently, it drove very tentatively and, when it was time to let him out, did so on the side of a busy street, some distance from the sidewalk and adjacent to a construction site. He said a Driver probably would have driven a little farther and turned onto a side street to let him out safely. Anyway, baby steps. Again, when next, I go down there, I hope to try one of these vehicles with him and Saskia, for myself.
    Take care, and keep us posted.

    Oh, yes, before I go, I should mention that Stephen was laid off about 10 days ago. Given the state of the film industry, it was not unexpected. He is approaching it positively and starts a six week project management course today, something he could not have done while working full-time with an unpredictable schedule. A break between jobs may also help to rest his right hand and is a carpal tunnel syndrome. He had already booked a trip home for Thanksgiving and another at Christmas while Kylie goes to her parents where they will be joined by her twin sister from New York. So I am looking forward to having him home for the holidays and ensuring that he gets some rest and relaxation even as he continues his online class and looks for new opportunities, possibly not back in the film business.
    Happy Thanksgiving if we don\’t talk before then, but I do hope we can chat again before the new year.
    Hugs,
    Karen and Saskia.

    Sent from my iPhone with help from Siri and Voiceover.

    • Karen-
      So sorry about Stephen’s job but glad he has a plan and deciding to make a career change. Project Management is a great choice and opens up so many opportunities in lots of different industries.

      Downtown LA did indeed surprise us in how much we liked it. We were dreading going to LA but instead we had such a good time. I would love to hear the LA philharmonic play at the concert hall sometime. We will talk soon.

  3. I certainly enjoyed going to LA with you – oops, I mean reading about your trip. I can picture Tracey wearing the beautiful African dress that she liked and appreciated.
    I’m very impressed with the Walt Disney Concert Hall and will certainly make that a “must-see” next time we are in L.A. The library amazed me. You’ll have to visit Chicago’s main library next time you visit us. It is not really up to what you saw but is interesting.
    You are a terrific writer and you are very kind to allow all of us to enjoy your trips and observations.
    Sending love and wishes for a Happy Thanksgiving!
    Valerie

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